Now it is time to write about another soap box of mine.
Its theme is love, and how that needs to be expressed before it’s too late.
When my sister was dying in a hospital, I received a lot of courage into my being. It made me talk to strangers and people in the family waiting room that didn’t know me at all. I didn’t care, because the message I wanted to stress felt so important. It still is.
You can’t assume that your friends and family and mate know you love them. Sometimes people wear a very thick shell around them so they can’t always feel the emotions you are expressing to them. (I should know, I wore this shell for many years.) Some don’t trust anymore. Some guess that you love them, but they don’t know for sure. That’s why it’s so important you let them know – now!!
It sounds ridiculously simple and unnecessary. But don’t be afraid…it can make their day or give them a cushion of love to snuggle into.
If you were raised in a generation where those things weren’t spoken, it’s not too late.
If you feel self conscious or stupid, write the words in a card and mail it to them.
Kind words bless both the receiver and the speaker.
Oh, and don’t forget, I love you.