It would be nice if we could all dance or walk to the beat of our own drummer. Oftentimes, though, someone else’s drummer turns out to be the one you listen to. Since we are all unique individuals, it doesn’t make sense to match up exactly to other people. It’s as if there’s a court and jury in your head, condemning you to a life lived the way others think you should live. I have heard the term “the voice in my head” or “the committee” that references who or what we listen to. Try listening to your own still voice. Once you do, you will be following your heart. And realizing you don’t have to be perfect.